Women: Should You Hold Back?

After a discussion with several friends, I found out that many successful women feel the need to hold back and slow down their career so their man can catch up and help brush man ego to eventually save the relationship.

I think women should never do that. His lack of self confidence and insecurity is not your problem.

Here’s what Trinity thought about this matter.

How about you? What do you think? Should women slow down for her beloved man?

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  1. Nadia

    Tough question ^^

    Kalau aku pribadi (aku pribadi yaaa, mungkin yang lain pny pengalaman beda) aku ga slow down, just keep the head down. Kalau slow down itu berarti kita menurunkan laju karir, alias berusaha menahan karir supaya lajunya ga di atas pasangan. Tapi kalau keep head down kita tetep menjalankan karir seperti seperti yang telah direncanakan tapi berusaha low profile di depan pasangan dan lingkungan sekitar.

    Caranya, kalau aku sih dengan tidak menonjolkan prestasi/karir kita dan lebih sering membahas prestasi yang diraihnya dan membanggakan prestasi tersebut di depan lingkungan keluarga atau pasangan.

    Seringnya sih pasangan fine2 aja dengan prestasi dan karir kita, tapi egonya mulai naik saat mendengar omongan miring dari orang-orang di sekitarnya, terutama omong-omongan dan cenderung membandinkan si cowo itu dengan pasangannya. Itu terjadi karena self esteem-nya turun saat orang di sekitarnya cenderung membandingkan ia dan pasangannya sehingga ia jadi ga pede. Kalau self esteem turun, memang biasanya ia akan merasa insecure and would blame his woman who are more successful than him. To avoid this, sometimes the method I told before worked. Tapi itu balik lagi ke pasangannya juga, gimana pun juga kan kadar ego pria beda-beda toh ^^

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  2. men should make it as motivation.. but sometimes the problem is with the environment, people rather to judge than being supportive.

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  3. If you have hyperthyroidism, I was dinsaoged that I have hypothyroidism while I was 19 years old. Anyway, back to the food. for sure I love your dish.. love terong gitu lho :))

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